Submitted by Jude’s dad, Kevin.
Hey Jude —
It’s been three years since we met you on Mother’s Day, May 8th, 2022. Our lives have changed so much since then, and it’s compelled me to stop and reflect. There are so many things we should be doing with you this year — enrolling in minor hockey, hitting balls at the driving range, beginning pre-school, splashing around in the local wading pool, or guiding you down the small slopes on your first snowboard.
Your mom and I still talk about you often. We play songs for you and always watch for that monarch butterfly fluttering close — a reminder of you, a sign that you’re still near.
Since then, we’ve moved from Edmonton to Calgary, started new jobs that give us more time together as a family, and welcomed your little sister, Rose.
A few months after we lost you, I met the most incredible group of fathers through the Sad Dads Club. That community helped nourish a very empty hole in my heart — one that can never truly be filled without you. It helped me feel less alone, and over time, helped me see you as a light in my life, even in the hardest moments.
We’re looking forward to spending time with you in Waterton Lakes National Park for your birthday, just as we’ve done every year — sitting atop Bear’s Hump in the same spot. I don’t know how that place became the one where we feel closest to you, but I’m so glad it did. Our dog Sloan can’t wait to hike up with us and show Rose why that breathtaking view is where we remember you the most.
Happy Birthday, Jude.
Thank you for making me a father.
We’re still missing you.
— With all my love,
Dad
Happy Birthday Jude